Update from the Owen House
I want to say thank you all very much for the way you have supported and prayed for us through Cindy's illness and eventual passing. I have intended many times to bring everyone up to speed on how we are doing and have just not taken the time. I am finding life to be very busy at the moment. I have new found admiration and respect for single parents.
I think all in all we are doing well. Of course, we all miss Cindy very much. Although their is a huge absence in each of our lives I do see joy coming back into the boys hearts. God has been with us every step of the way during this painful journey. At times we may not feel or sense God's presence and yet I know he has been the one leading us, giving us strength, and sustaining us through the difficult months.
One of the blessings of being a parent is listening to your children pray. I learn so much from their tender and child like faith. About a month after Cindy's passing Trey would still pray for the Lord to "heal mommy." Even though he had attended the funeral and I answered many questions about death and where mommy was, it still did not register with him. Finally, after one of those prayers for God to heal mommy Reid said, "Trey, God did heal mommy! She's in heaven." And so now Trey will often thank the Lord for mommy "because she is now in heaven."
I am doing well. I have probably learned more the past year than I have in all my previous years combined. In another post in the coming days I will share some of the things I have been learning. I think I also at some point want to hear what God has been teaching you.
Your prayers and words of encouragement are still a constant blessing to us.
I love you all very much,
Kevin
I think all in all we are doing well. Of course, we all miss Cindy very much. Although their is a huge absence in each of our lives I do see joy coming back into the boys hearts. God has been with us every step of the way during this painful journey. At times we may not feel or sense God's presence and yet I know he has been the one leading us, giving us strength, and sustaining us through the difficult months.
One of the blessings of being a parent is listening to your children pray. I learn so much from their tender and child like faith. About a month after Cindy's passing Trey would still pray for the Lord to "heal mommy." Even though he had attended the funeral and I answered many questions about death and where mommy was, it still did not register with him. Finally, after one of those prayers for God to heal mommy Reid said, "Trey, God did heal mommy! She's in heaven." And so now Trey will often thank the Lord for mommy "because she is now in heaven."
I am doing well. I have probably learned more the past year than I have in all my previous years combined. In another post in the coming days I will share some of the things I have been learning. I think I also at some point want to hear what God has been teaching you.
Your prayers and words of encouragement are still a constant blessing to us.
I love you all very much,
Kevin
21 Comments:
Kevin & boys,
I was so excited to receive your email and then to read the blog and find you all doing well & keeping the faith. I continue praying for your family. I pray for Cindy too and the influence she had on so, so many people. I pray that God comforts you all in your lonely and sad days.
I agree, it will be a glorious reunion one of these days as we all stand around the throne of God together praising his name. In my Fathers mansion there are many rooms...I can see Cindy in the mansion washing the feet of God as I type this message to you!
We love you,
Jim & Bev Aldridge
Hey Kevin,
I forgot to tell you that West Metro is walking for the cure of MS tomorrow in support of Rick Rissman, "Rick's Road Crew" walking for the cure! Wish you and the boys were here to walk with us!
Keep the Faith,
Jim & Bev
Thank you for sharing with us Kevin. Keep praying, keep reading the Word, and keep pushing on. You are in my prayers. :-)
Kevin,
It is good to hear an update on how you and the boys are doing. I look forward to reading about what you are learning. Still praying for you.
Kevin, How wonderful to hear from you and to know that you and the boys are relying on God for your strength during this difficult time. I know that in the coming months, there will be many more difficult days for you all, but we're keeping you in our prayers and know that God is keeping you close. We love you all, Mark and Kristi Porter
Kevin,
It's so great to hear an update from you. You and the boys are never far from our thoughts and prayers. Sometimes I think spring, with its blooms and green leaves, is the hardest season to endure after losing someone, because it's a reminder that life goes on. But at the same time, seeing the rebirth part of the cycle reminds us that there is no end. Cindy is definitely still a part of life, tangibly in Heaven, and in our hearts here on earth.
I'm praying peace and comfort today for you and the boys and your extended family.
Love,
Kevin and Chris Lynxwiler
Hardy, Arkansas
I pray for you guys daily. Sometimes I wish you still had that pager. I bought a luninaria in memory of Cindy in the Walk for Life in a couple of weeks. It's great to see how God has carried you. Even through everything, He is good. Thanks for posting this and keep us in your prayers as well.
Hi Kevin,
You and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers. I know that Cindy would be very proud of all of you. She was a beautiful, kind, loving Christian and I am so honored to have known her.
Melinda McGuire
Kevin & boys,
I just now am hearing of Cindy's passing....Cindy & I graduated from HS together in IL. I moved to Olney I think one year before her. The uniqueness about the two of us was that we were both "southern" girls. I am from the mid-south & Georgia. I remember Cindy's demeanor as being gentle & sweet. She was beautiful inside and out...please know as a fellow Christian, that my prayers are with you and the boys.
God Bless,
Donna (Hoover) Robinson
Kevin & boys,
I am including all of you in my Mother's Day prayers today and am assured that God is wrapping his loving arms around your family extra tightly today. He is so proud of you Kevin. Stay strong & remember that so many think of you and pray for you daily.
Lots of Love,
Bev & Jim
Dear Kevin, Trey, Chase and Reid (not sure what order), Just want you to know you are thought of today. I know it must feel "empty" without your mommy and wife to celebrate this day. Another hurdle to jump. May God continue to strengthen and comfort your hearts. And keep your eyes on the things above where Christ is, one day we will all be resurrected!
Just wanted to let you know how much your writing has meant to me. I've been going back and reading what you wrote last year and I've been travelling the same road with Traci's illness. Reading your blog is almost like having an emotional road map. Keep usin your prayers.
-J
Kevin,
I don't know if you will ever know the extent to which you are a "rock" to me. Jesus tells us we need to build our "house" on on a strong foundation, you are a wonderful example of that. It is amazing how the Lord works. May God continue to bless you, Chase, Reid and Trey.
Ron
Hey Kevin,
I just wanted you to know how much you've been on my mind the last few days. I know early June will be a difficult time for at least a few years, and I'm just praying that you will feel God's presence now. Thank you for continuing to share this road with us. If you need us for anything, don't hesitate to let us know. Love, Kristi
Dear Kevin & Boys,
Thank you for updating us on how you all are doing. I went to the Rio Rancho Ladies day and Cindy and her strength were mentioned.
As I posted before, I just met Cindy briefly as a visitor at Montgomery, but her love of God and His people was amazing. She encouraged me. I am now studying the Beth More study she was teaching when I met her. Believing God.
I too have wondered about you when I have visited like when I attended the Candle Light Service Christmas
Eve.
Take Care.
Lynne Lovato
Los Lunas
Just wanted you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers this week.
Kevin,
Don and I just want to let you know, you and the boys are in our hearts and prayers this week.
Love
Don & Barbara Denney
Kevin & boys,
I saw your beautiful picture on the Montgomery Church Website! You are all a bunch of handsome guys! Cindy would be so proud of all of you! Keeping you close in prayer everyday and especially during this time, it's still so hard to believe that Cindy is no longer with us and even harder to believe it's been a year since we lost her. I still cherish my Cindy Angel ornament & hang onto the memories. Always remember Georgia is still praying for you all!
We love you,
Jim & Bev Aldridge
Kevin,
It was awesome seeing you Sunday! Your sermon voice still gives me chills! Thanks for taking the time to visit with all of us at West Metro,,,GA!
WE LOVE YOU AND CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU ALL!
Bev Aldridge
Kevin, I just wanted you to know that you and your family have not been forgotten. I think about you guys often. I pray that you are all doing well. I don't know if you ever visit this site now but sometimes I am drawn to it. I pray that today is easier than a year ago. May God bless your week.
Debbie Hardin
I just checked the site to see if there was any update. I hope you and the boys are doing well. Please post something to let us know how you are doing.
Martha Burnett
Wedowee, AL (formerly of Douglasville)
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